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Absolutely not. You are not expected to do anything that you don’t want to do. There is no pressure of any kind.
Full Stop. With that being said, I am a sex coach and you are likely coming in to get support in this area. I have found that talking only modalities make results take much longer. Optional interactions and demos are optionally and consensually there to kick things into high gear and get you results. Your personal preferences and needs matter most and we tailor your session around this.
So while you are not obligated to interact, it is strongly recommended that you both come with a positive intent of working on this together. It’s not enough to simply show up.
Absolutely not
Some people take off their jacket or sweater if they get too warm, but it stops there.
Now sometimes, for those who are looking to increase their sexual chemistry, or learn how to be more intimate, we can take off an article of clothing like a shirt, vest, jacket or extra top that you bring in. This is useful if and only if your particular relationship requires help in this area. Even then, all interactions are optional and intended to help you understand how to do it in a way that your partner finds attractive.
Great question. I am not a therapist, but I do get results
This might be easiest to answer in the words of my clients: Often I am the person people call when traditional methods of personal therapy, marriage counseling and sex therapy have not worked.
While you certainly can do session with me in a tradition setting and sense: You sit on the sofa and we work through things together… I am also able to get long lasting results by actually teaching, guiding and educating you and your partner about almost any sexual subject you can think of.
Constantly. For one reason or another, many women prefer to come in by themselves, even if they’re married or in a relationship. This is likely because they want to sort through some things on their own first and get things clear before talking to their partner. This is a unique decision that is entirely up to you, but you are always welcome to come in on your own.
Often women will come to see me to get to know their own body better, to ask questions about toys, masturbation, pleasure, etc. In some cases, women may wish to even learn how to practice saying no. In such cases, we can create optional and consensual, demos and interactions where I approach you, and you practice with your voice and gestures. In other cases, you can learn to ask for what you want, and figure out what turns you on and gets you excited, etc.
Absolutely. And perhaps even more so than someone who’s in a relationship. Tuning into the Closeness podcast when you’re single allows, you to work on yourself, discover what you want, and put into practice some of the things you’ve learned with someone new.
If you plan on ever interacting with another human again in an intimate setting, this podcast is definitely for you regardless of your relationship status.
So many of the discussions and lessons are pertinent to all of us because these are things that we never learned growing up. I take complex, super intimate matters and break them down in a way that allows you to understand it, and actually do something with it. Closeness is like receiving the best sex education.
It is very likely that your question has already been answered in one of our many episodes.
Try looking for a subject matter that is important to you and giving it a listen. You can also come in for a Closeness intimacy coaching session to get any of your questions answered.
I do take recommendations and requests, and will sometimes create an episode with enough requests from our audience.
Everywhere.
You can listen absolutely everywhere podcasts can be found. Tune in on any phone, laptop or tablet on your favorite streaming service such as Apple podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, YouTube Music, Stitcher, Pandora, TuneIn, iHeart, Deezer, or in your Tesla.
Just click on the Podcast link at the top of the page.
You can also find direct links to other platforms by clicking them on the bottom of this page.
Or you can listen to the Closeness podcast by clicking on the podcast tab from the navigation menu, and clicking an episode that you like.
Apple podcasts, and the Closeness website also provide a full transcript if you prefer to read it
Send us an email to setup a phone conversation. If you’re articulate, insightful and well versed on a subject it’s likely we can collaborate and make an episode together.
This has actually been a strong request from clients over the years. Research has shown that for this particular subject more people prefer the solo style than the interview style. However, I am not at all opposed to having guests on the show.
If you want to get in and need immediate help, the quickest way is to book a session online using my calendar, pay the deposit, and choose an in person or phone session. Nothing else is required other than the deposit and your booking.
Alternatively, you can simply fill out an intake form found at the top or bottom of every page, and then we can get you scheduled to come in.
You can schedule an appointment by giving me a call, texting me, or using my online calendar
I think that goes without saying, but yes, absolutely.
I do make episodes on the podcast based on case studies when I specifically see the same situation occurring in couples over and over and over again.
Approximately 80% of clients tell me that they think I was speaking directly to them on the podcast, even though I had never met them before. This is because we all deal with similar relationship issues, and I know how to address them.
Your name, business, likeness, appearance, or unique personal situation will never be discussed publicly.
This can be answered in a couple of ways:
Unless you or your partner have a few basic questions that need to be addressed with a phone session, we will definitely want to do at least three sessions. Your first one, and two follow ups for continued coaching and guidance. After that, there is no contract or requirement to continue.
Many people want to know how many sessions it will take to make a difference or see improvement. As shocking as it may sound, many people have been helped tremendously after only one session. Generally, if both people are willing to participate or if you’re coming to me as a single person who is willing to participate, you will see results in one to three sessions.
Sometimes, people who want to really build up a good repertoire, work on something new every week, be kept accountable, enjoy the fun or excitement of a session, or just require more personal attention. These couples prefer to see me long-term every couple of weeks or maybe once a month after our initial 5 to 10 sessions.
Results very with everyone, but you will always walk away with something useful after each session.
Pricing is very straight forward. It is $250 per hour, Monday to Friday, between the hours of 8 AM and 5 PM. After our sessions are available after 5 PM, and on the weekends for the rate of $300 an hour. For those of you who wished to pay in bitcoin, the rate is always $300 an hour.
Home sessions are $400 per hour if you live within a 10 mile radius of the office
I leave a two hour window open for us to work as opposed to the traditional 50 minute method. This means that we can either do an hour, 90 minute or two hour session as needed. You do not need to decide this before our session begins, but I do recommend letting me know if you are constrained financially or have somewhere to be. We then finalize billing at the end of every session.
I would hope at this point that would be obvious, but yes, absolutely. You can come in to see me for a session without having to ever speak a word about sex, intimacy, or relationships. We can work on all matters related to life, family, personal growth and development, dancing, fine dining, cooking, interior design, acrobatics, AcroYoga, sports, motivation, working out, exercise, and so much more.
A life coach is an extremely valuable asset to have! When you couple that with my knowledge of relationships, it’s a powerful combo.
Movement has always been a central part of my life. Acrobatics, dance, gymnastics, yoga, hand to hand, breathe work and handstands play a large role in both my physical practice and coaching practice. If you’re looking to do something fun as a couple and you are physically fit, I’m happy to do a private lesson with you as well acrobatically speaking.
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