Welcome to Closeness

I’m San Diego’s top rated sex and intimacy coach. If you’re experiencing any sexual or relationship challenges in your married or single life, you’ve come to the right place.

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You are about get real help. I’m highly competent at making your session feel comfortable, safe and even exciting when appropriate. More information, including fees, podcast and reviews, can be found here. I look forward to meeting you!

Closeness 2025

Hello! What is your full name?

Email

Phone

Dates for your first appointment

Age

Together or by yourself?

Offspring

Describe your work

Your current sex drive

If applicable, how does it compare to your partners?

Time together if you're involved with someone

Sex work

What's working?

Sexual attraction to one another

How well do you communicate?

What are you struggling with?

How can I help?

Has there been betrayal on yours or their part?

In terms of getting these things taken care of, where are we?
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Last ditch effort It has been going on for a while but we haven’t addressed it I've been trying to address it with other professionals with little or no results I'm here to learn more about my body and how it works I am curious about reaching orgasm or other types of pleasure such as g-spot, a-spot, squirting or clitoral orgasms Things are great but I want to learn to be a better lover I would like you to show my partner how to excite me and get me going I would like you to help me get to know my body better, get out of my head and figure out what I want

Do you enjoy or love sex?

Sexual Intimacy other than sex

Do you wish there was more of this?

How often are you having sex?

Is lack of sex or too much sex a deal breaker?

Do you watch porn? How often?

How do you like to have sex initiated?

Being affectionate, soothing and loving

How often are you in touch with yourself?

You wanted to share more?

Do you think your strategies are effective at getting you what you want?

If you don't lean towards initiating sex, how does your partner know you're ready or want it or should make the move?

Expectations about sex

Meds, pills and drugs

Rejection

Initiation

Turning them on

Taking the lead and knowing how to do it

Communication

I would like my relationship to remain

Monogamous Open in some way I am open to anything I want to stay single and have fun I want my partner to only want me I am committed to my partner and love them but crave and want causal encounters or to have sex with others I’d like to get out of this relationship and need some help communicating this to my partner Other

Relationship with your parents

Religion

More details

Orgasm struggles with or without your partner?

Do you both reach orgasm regularly, even if not at the same time?

A little more

The female orgasm

Additional stimulation

Any restrictions on consent to discuss? Privacy and confidentiality

CLOSENESS SERVICE AREA

Get in-person, real sexual guidance and relationship coaching to help you and your partner get to a more connected and erotic place.

As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I service all of Southern California, San Diego and Los Angeles area including North County and North San Diego.

While some clients fly in for appointments, people generally come from North Park, South Park, Hillcrest, La Jolla, Miramar, Del Mar, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Valencia, Downtown San Diego, Little Italy and more.

Great relationship help is hard to find. If you live abroad or in another city we offer virtual sessions as well on Zoom or FaceTime. I think you’ll enjoy it much more than a therapy or sex therapy session.

Reclaim your sexuality and schedule a sex coaching session today on Calendly or filling out an intake form.

PODCAST

Why I'm Different

You may have been left frustrated in the intimacy department if you have experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling in San Diego. As it turns out, many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable or knowledgable when it comes to the very sexual details that sexual guidance requires.

I constantly receive feedback that the advice clients receive from marriage and family counselor was too general or bland. They often say they were unable get their spark back because the advice simply didn’t work in this department.

At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of matters that are effecting your most, no matter how personal they may feel. My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.

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