“I didn’t know what I wanted or needed when I sought help from Tari at Closeness, only that things needed to change.
Sex coaching is like getting the sex education you wish you had growing up. In-person intimacy coaching sessions are the perfect way to restore chemistry with your partner and clean up bad habits. In the office, you can actually learn to seduce and excite your partner.
Seduction is not a dark and scary word, but is in fact almost always what she wants. I will help you develop skills you were never taught both in and out of the bedroom that will make your relationship feel more alive and passionate. Anything that has been confusing for you, can be addressed in a safe, fun and respectful space.
As the top rated sex coach in San Diego, I specialize in re-invigorating your relationship.
Ladies, if you're tired being "asked" for sex, are annoyed by being touched in ways that make your skin crawl, keep reading. Sex coaching is a game changer. I facilitate all difficult conversations including ones you've never had with anyone else.
If your relationship is craving Closeness, or needs a sexual tune-up, this is where you want to be.
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Countless powerful and intimate five-star reviews means that we can help you too. Sex Coaching is not something to be afraid of or intimidated by, it’s another tool to make things. better.
I invite you to read through as many touching reviews as you’d like from other women who have had similar issues in their relationship and have found answers. Take a look and see if what I offer resonates with you.
I am not a therapist, but I do get results
I also do not diagnose illness, treat mental health conditions, specialize in resolving past traumas, and I am not classically trained in resolving emotional and behavioral issues. That is a different department and I stay in my lane.
I am not a: Clinical Counselor (LPCC), Clinical social worker (LCSW), therapist, marriage and family therapist (MFT), or sex therapist, etc. I avoid language that suggests I am involved in any of these professions.
For your particular situation, sex coaching may not be a substitute for therapy as I focus on education, skill-building and exploration as opposed to addressing mental health conditions or providing therapy. If you feel you need help with your mental health please find an appropriate health care provider.
Many clients enjoy working with me alongside their own personal or couple’s therapist.
However, in the words of my clients: I am often the person people call when traditional methods of personal therapy, marriage counseling and sex therapy have not worked for their unique intimate situation.
I am often able to get long lasting results by actually teaching, guiding and educating you and your partner about almost any sexual subject you can think of.
Intimacy coaching is a powerful way to get out of your head, sort through what’s going on, and have the conversations you can’t talk about anywhere else.
Women don’t want to ‘teach’ their partner how to do be sexual. This feels unnatural or makes them see and experience their partner differently. In session, we figure out what excites you and then teach your partner how to give that to you while also keeping his needs in mind. This makes all the difference in the world when it comes to turning you on. We can soften anxiety, figure out what gets you going, and work on his assertiveness.
If you’re in relationship, coming to session together is the most powerful way to create lasting change. Often couples want to send their other half in to be fixed. But when the female partner is present in the room, she can actually see the changes and experience what turns her on (or off) in real time.
When a woman is present, everything changes for the better and that’s where the magic happens.
With your consent, you can learn how to help your female partner feel desired, aroused and heard. You’ll leave with an understanding of how and why it happened. I will gently point out her subtle body language and cues, that let you know you’re heading in the right direction.
There are very specific cues women offer that inform you what to do next! Most men, if they are in a good head space, can learn to tune in to their partner’s sexual desire because he’ll be able to see it in her eyes and body language. That’s the power of great sex coaching!
Often one person has a much higher sex drive than their partner. That is often the female partner.
If a man is ‘working on it’ by only trying once or twice a week, but is weak in his energy and approach, this will appear to his female partner like he doesn’t care or isn’t trying. By coming to sessions regularly, we’ll get everyone dialed in, so you always know what to do next.
Repetitive sessions allow us to continue to refine so you can be more effective, and seductive, at home- for life. Most people find that I can get them back on track in 3-6 sessions!
Get in-person, sexual guidance and relationship coaching to get you to a better place.
As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I service all of Southern California, San Diego and Los Angeles area including North County and North San Diego.
Some clients fly in for appointments from out of state and will stay at a local hotel or Airbnb. Locals come from North Park, South Park, Hillcrest, La Jolla and Del Mar. Others come from Miramar, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Valencia, Downtown San Diego, Little Italy etc.
Great relationship help is hard to find. If you live abroad or in another city we offer virtual sessions as well on Zoom or FaceTime. I think you’ll enjoy it much more than a therapy or sex therapy session.
Reclaim your sexuality and schedule a sex coaching session today on Calendly or filling out an intake form.
Have you experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, or marriage and family counseling in San Diego? You may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the intimacy department. Many qualified therapists counselors and even sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable with discussing the intimate details that true sexual guidance requires.
I regularly receive feedback that the advice clients receive from their therapist was too general, bland or non-applicable. They often say they were unable get their spark back because the advice simply didn’t work in this department.
At Closeness, we can get to the heart of what’s effecting your most, no matter how personal it may feel. My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.
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