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Expert sex coaching and intimacy advice from Tari, San Diego’s top-rated sex coach. Transform your relationship and intimacy with powerful sexual guidance and relationship help.
Expert sex coaching and intimacy advice from Tari, San Diego’s top-rated sex coach. Transform your relationship and intimacy with powerful sexual guidance and relationship help.
I wanted to use this section to be a little more personable. It’s nice to know who you’ll be working with. I know it’s not an easy choice when you decide to get help and it’s tricky to find someone you feel comfortable with. Do you need a sex therapist? Do you need a marriage and family counselor? Or do you need someone to get you back on track and teach you a few things?
So! My name is Tari – pronounced Tarrie, and no my parents were not hippies. I’m also an acrobat, hand balancer, dancer, mover and shaker.
In other areas of my life I blend safety and trust with extreme exhilaration and fun. Holding someone over my head while they do a handstand in my hands not only requires surrender, focus and trust- but they’re also trusting me with their life. That is something I take very seriously. At the same time life can’t only be about playing it safe. We must grow and expand.
Closeness Clients regularly report that after 1-4 visits, their sex life and love life dramatically change for the better! Depending on your receptivity and openness to my style of coaching, you will be shocked by what can be unlocked and accomplished within a few hours time.
I’m not just a sex educator—I’m a sexual translator. I help you understand what your partner is feeling, thinking, and needing in a way that actually makes sense. My specialty? Breaking through stuck energy, reigniting sensual and sexual attraction, and helping you build the kind of chemistry that feels electric.
But to truly get there, sometimes we need to address the deeper stuff—healing old wounds, working through forgiveness, and rebuilding trust. I create tailored breakthroughs that work for your unique relationship, helping you grow closer in ways you never thought possible.
Sessions are customized to fit who you are and what you want. We can explore the super hot and sexy stuff or the day-to-day topics like sleeping arrangements, non-violent communication, cooking together, or even planning unforgettable date nights. Want more? I’ll recommend activities, restaurants, worldwide travel destinations, partner yoga, and even partner acrobatics to keep the spark alive.
Let’s create connection, excitement, and intimacy that lasts.
That kind of experience, that kind of Closeness that requires trust and strength, openness and vulnerability, focus and determination... that's my jam.
Sometimes people want to know what got me into this profession.
I've always, always had a love for connection. It wasn't always evident that I wanted to do sex coaching in San Diego, but it seems tofu the bill for encompassing
a lot of things that I do well.
For me it's being able to look people in the eyes, and give warmth or share warmth. I love being able to watch another couple grow closer, or open more to each other. That is pretty special.
You now, it's interesting. No matter how much or how well I explain what does and does not happen in sessions, people still get a little nervous. I suppose it's to be expected. When you share the most intimate details of your life with someone, I think first and foremost you want to know- can I trust this person. Do they know what they're doing? And from me to you, I want you to know that I take great care with those specific questions. When you come in for a sex coaching session you will be treated with respect and sensitivity. And also let's realize, of all the places in the world where you can let loose a little bit and not be so prim and proper, this would be that place! I guide sessions based on your energy and needs, not my own. If you want a fun, sexy, playful session with your partner, we will make it so. If what you're going through is sensitive, or heavy and requires care and sensitivity, that's what you'll receive.
Real sexual guidance to help you and your partner get to a better and more passionate place. Full support through navigating different sex drives, approaches, attachment styles, and different ways of becoming aroused. Learn to successfully navigate betrayal, breakups and misunderstandings. Learn to have better sex as early as your first appointment. In office, in home or virtual sessions available.
If you have experienced traditional forms of therapy in San Diego, sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling before, you may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the sexual department. As it turns out, many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable or at their best when it comes to diving into the nitty gritty details of your romantic sex life. I receive constant feedback that an MFT’s advice was rather general, bland or that they were unable to get the spark back. At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of the intimate subjects that are affecting your most, no matter how personal. World class help from your Intimacy Advisor is safe, stress free and takes place in a beautiful, relaxing setting.
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