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For a sexual woman, nothing can be more painful than the rejection that comes from not feeling wanted or desired. In long-term relationships this is more common than you may think. Explore this emotionally charged episode with me to get

There’s a huge difference between you finding your woman sexy and her feeling sexy and sexual towards you. Listen to this episode to make a bigger splash with your partner in and out of the bedroom. Chapters: 0:00 Intro 4:45

CHAPTERS: 0:00 Introduction 3:42 1:Logistics 8:03 The three categories of affection 11:33 Logistical problem 1a: Your furnishings 13:37 Logistical problem 1b: Lovers can’t find the time 14:12 2. Family, extended family and kids 15:58 3. No locks on your doors

CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro and the types of relationships that are like this 2:34 Women who want it but their husbands drive is not there 3:42 You’re trying, you’re having good sex but it’s still not enough for her 5:06 Thoughts

Chapters:  0:00 Intro  2:25 Disclosures  3:45 Connecting with your children is not something that ever ends  5:45  1. Anytime something goes wrong, it’s going to require mom’s instant attention  7:06 A taste of my story  9:50 2. Many women think

This episode of the Closeness Podcast explores the profound experience of recognizing when a woman is truly in love with you and how to reciprocate that love in meaningful ways. Tari, paints a vivid picture of what love looks and feels like—through admiring glances, thoughtful gestures, intimate connections, and playful banter. He emphasizes that love is both a gift and a responsibility, requiring attentiveness, reciprocity, and understanding.

This episode dives into 15 ways to recognize love, from the way she supports you in difficult times, her willingness to be vulnerable, to her desire for emotional and physical intimacy. It’s a heartfelt guide to not only recognizing a partner’s love but also learning how to nurture and sustain it. Whether through the subtle art of eye contact or shared humor, Tari highlights that love is built on mutual effort, presence, and a deep appreciation for each other’s unique contributions to the relationship.

This episode explores the concept of sexual tension within romantic relationships, particularly its role in fostering intimacy and maintaining attraction. Key points include: • Definition of Sexual Tension: a dynamic that ignites desire and passion, creating excitement and anticipation between

This is admittedly a dense episode. It’s less about the usual sexy and thought provoking ideas we usually explore and more about the inane conflicts that arise in relationship which prevent us from experiencing true intimacy or a great connection!

In this unprecedented interview read by the podcast host, a Closeness Client shares her struggles with intimacy and grapples with her desires for dominance and assertiveness in relationship. A two part interview with a “director’s cut” version: commentary from the host, as well as an unadulterated interview. Does her experience hit home?

Without a doubt, one of the number one reasons people struggle in long term, committed relationships, is because they feel like best friends or roommates at home. There’s no passion or excitement! Nothing is moving forward, or things have gone

Often the things we aren’t doing in bed can be as detrimental as the ones we are. Here are ten reasons why your wife or girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex with you.

An unusually intelligent and intellectual college student explores her boundaries of sexuality, and intimate desires. How men and women at the university level interact with each other these days in the dating world is different than what we’ve seen before.

The most difficult subject for any man: keeping it up, getting it up and not finishing too quickly. This action packed episodes gives tools and suggestions for both men and women to implement.

CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction and can you have it all? Recitals and disclaimers 2:44 In a nutshell 4:20 What does it mean to have it all? 9:40 Misunderstandings 12:40 Should one person be your everything? 15:21 COVID and Politics 16:26 Are

Chapters: Avoid these thirty expressions to have a better life

It’s one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here’s everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS:0:00 What is ghosting?2:25 Why do

When thinking about chemistry, if you’ve ever told someone it’s either there or it isn’t, we’ve got a lot to share with you today…

Chapters: 0:00 Intro 1:16 Is she asking for it?  8:04 Men don’t really like to be teased the way women do 8:43 You should always be able to say no  9:43 He’s reading your cues accurately if you’re advertising sex

In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it

Learning to kiss our partner in a way that really turns them on is not innate. Like most things we do for the first time, we’re sloppy and we don’t take the time to learn good technique. Yes even kissing

Welcome to 2020 and welcome to Season Two of the Closeness Podcast! To start the New Year off with a bang we’re diving in with a sexually-explicit episode that covers fifteen steps to giving a woman a phenomenal experience she

Exposing your sexual health and history to someone new is very vulnerable. Getting tested, asking a partner about their past and sharing your feelings are difficult territories to navigate. Since most of us feel uncomfortable even thinking about it, very

Beyond the Basics: Unraveling the 10 Phases of Female Arousal If you grew up learning about the traditional sexual response cycle—excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution—you might think you’ve heard it all. But what if there’s a lot more to the

Why Do We Change Our Minds About Attraction? Navigating Confusion, Boundaries, and Rejection How to say no, part deux. How many times have you changed your mind about someone or something? Maybe you weren’t attracted to them at first, but

Mastering the Art of Rejection: How to Say No Rejection—it’s something we all dread, yet it’s an unavoidable part of life, relationships, and intimacy. Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end, rejection can leave you feeling unworthy, shut down,

Experience Another Sensual Meditation: Go deeper An immersive listening experience designed to awaken your senses and bring you closer to your partner, and yourself. Using evocative and sensual tones, this episode goes beyond what you’re used to listening to in

The Explosive Finale: Who Should Pay for the First Date? Part 3 This highly anticipated 90-minute conclusion to our provocative three-part series, is a no-holds-barred deep dive into the unspoken rules, assumptions, and expectations surrounding money, sex, and first dates.

Who Should Pay for the First Date? Part 2: Exploring the Controversy In part two of this three-part series, we dive even deeper into one of the most debated questions in modern dating: Who should pay for the first date?

In this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three

Unlocking the Secrets of Closeness: How to Know if she’s Into You When it comes to creating genuine closeness with someone, the conversation often starts with what not to do. Avoiding common mistakes can set the stage for meaningful connection,

Mastering Communication and Intimacy: Unlock Closeness in Your Relationship Flip through any self-help book, and you’ll likely come across the timeless mantra: “Communication is key.” But let’s be real—do we actually know how to communicate? Are we confident in expressing

We all have the potential to make relationships thrive, but are long-distance relationships truly worth the effort? If you’ve experienced one or are navigating one now, you already understand the unique challenges: the lack of regular visits, the absence of

Hot sex and meaningful intimacy aren’t reserved for the young. In this episode, we dive deep into the complex and often unspoken facets of relationships, love, and sexuality—challenging societal norms and exploring the raw, real truths behind human connection. We

What does it mean to be demisexual, and how does this identity intersect with the complexities of online dating? What does it truly take for someone like Sarah to experience arousal and connection? In this captivating and deeply personal episode,

Traveling has always been one of the most exciting ways to immerse ourselves in life, culture, and romance. In this episode, we sit down with Marisa, a newly turned twenty-one-year-old, to explore her adventures in world travel, love, and sexuality.

At first glance, the idea of men and women being “just friends” seems simple enough —of course they can! But is that really what’s happening when sexual attraction enters the picture? This episode takes a thought-provoking dive into the subtle

In the gripping finale of our Deadly Sins of Online Dating series, we reveal the final thirteen missteps that can doom your dating life—and, more importantly, how to avoid them. If you’re serious about stepping up your game and making

In the second installment of the Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’re tackling some of the most cringe-worthy behaviors that send online dating connections straight to the trash. Ready to up your dating game? Let’s dive in: •Looking significantly worse

Online dating is a bit like stepping into the wild West—lawless, chaotic, and full of promise, but it also isn’t without its pitfalls. For some, it’s thrilling, while for others, it’s a little secret we only whisper about to our

Building genuine closeness with someone else begins with a deep connection to yourself: learning how to care for your mind, body, and soul while staying in alignment with who you truly are. In this episode, we unlock the incredible power

Unlock the Power of Sensual Meditations: A Unique Listening Experience Welcome to a new kind of meditation—one that isn’t about zoning out or falling asleep but about waking up your senses and diving into the world of erotic energy. This

Common Behaviors That Might Be Hurting Your Relationships: What Women Should Know In this episode, we dive into behaviors that women (often unconsciously) engage in that could harm their relationships and interactions. It’s not about placing blame—it’s about building awareness

CHAPTERS:  0:00 Intro  3:16 The Reality TV effect on behavior  11:24 How do men feel about it all 13:10 Solutions and answers 16:15 2. Stealing your partners thunder in conflict  22:00 Answers and solutions  24:00 3. Being scared of everyone 

Have you thought about where you can go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? Hopefully after listening to the Closeness podcast you know that we are here for you. We offer in person private meetings and video chat

Dancers have always understood something that many of us are just starting to figure out—leading and following in dance isn’t just about choreography; it’s a powerful metaphor for relationships, especially in the bedroom.   And it’s what women want.  

Briana Gibson is a force to be reckoned with on the dance floor, and in this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs, she gives us an insider’s look into the art of nonverbal communication through dance. Three minutes of moving closely with

Ever wondered why women often don’t try again after approaching or initiating just once? The truth is, rejection cuts deep—often more than you realize. In this episode, we’ll unpack how intensely women tend to internalize rejection and explore what both

Have you ever thought about how much sex you want in a day, a week, or a month? Or do you avoid quantifying it altogether, thinking it’s too personal or restrictive? And here’s another question: once you’ve slept with someone

Balancing Passion and Partnership: What Happens When Your Partner Doesn’t Share Your Interests? Our passions and hobbies often define us—they’re what light us up, give us purpose, and make life more exciting. For some, these activities are just a fun

The Secret to Deeper Intimacy: Communication, Connection, and Sensual Exploration And also, how to properly go down on her. Part deux. If we want to create unforgettable intimacy with our partners, the first step is understanding a simple truth: neither

Unlocking the Art of Deep Listening and Mind-Blowing Oral Sex Intimacy isn’t just about physical connection; it’s about tuning in with your whole being. Deep listening means learning to read your partner on a level that goes beyond words—so you

Refining the Art of Intimacy: A Guide to Memorable Sexual Encounters You’ve shared moments of connection, and now you’re poised for some fun in the bedroom. While the mechanics of sex might be universally understood, the art of properly seducing

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily? In

One of the most difficult and excruciating parts of relationships are breakups and the events leading up to them. Sometimes though, they can be avoided simply by recognizing the early warning signs. Why do we ignore them so readily?  

CHAPTERS:  0:00 Introduction and recap  2:32 I don’t want to argue  7:06 Starting and argument and then shutting it down  10:20 Reading way too deep into things  14:30 Why direct communication is best  16:40 Deprioritizing your partner without warning and

  CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 2:00 Asking questions you don’t want the answer to  10:12 Questioning and interrogating  12:00 A tool to indentify the style of questions you’re being asked  15:05 Your tone matters  18:10 The best tool for asking the

Everything you want to know about an in-person sex, intimacy and relationship coaching session. An in depth look at what makes Closeness famous for getting sizzling results.  Subscribe to Closeness on YouTube:  www.youtube.com/closeness?sub_confirmation=1  

Self love and “touching yourself” is an interesting concept. Observe how you feel when you simply read the question: “Do you touch yourself?” or “Do you masturbate?” Some women have no issue being handsy multiple times a day, while others

Helping a woman spill over into orgasm is a very exciting experience.  We’re big fans of the whole process. But getting her there is not always about what you think, especially if you’re the kind of man who is destination

Few things captivate a man more than the presence of a fully aroused woman—but how does one inspire her to reach that place of desire? Here’s a hint: it’s not just about what happens in the moment. This episode unveils

Have you ever been on a date and found yourself blurting out, “You don’t know me!” or “You’re a stranger!”? The language we use not only shapes our perspective but also profoundly impacts how we connect with others. Referring to

Unrequited love is one of life’s most painful and challenging experiences—both for the person longing and for the one unable to reciprocate. Yet, we rarely stop to consider the impact on the other side: how it feels to be the

When you’re on a date, do you find yourself telling others not to “waste your time”? It’s a harsh, disheartening expression that implies anyone who doesn’t captivate you or fulfill your desires is disposable. Communicating this to someone who is

Have you ever been accused of “playing games” or not being upfront? For many of us, the challenge lies in uttering three deceptively simple words: I’m not interested. This single sentence has the power to save both time and heartache—for

Do you find yourself constantly telling others how busy you are? When someone invites you out, is your go-to response something like, “I can’t,” “I’m busy,” or “It’s a really hectic week for me”? Do you follow up with genuine

The moment you share intimacy with someone new, a dynamic begins to take shape, often accompanied by unspoken expectations. Yet, the time leading up to that moment—the anticipation, the connection, the discovery—can be profoundly special and unforgettable. How you approach

Mastering Intimacy: Your Guide to a Memorable First Time You’ve built a connection, and now you’re ready for the bedroom. You know the basics, but do you know how to make it special? That first time can set the tone for

The Closeness podcast serves as an enlightening guide to cultivating intimacy, romance, and sexuality in their most healthful expressions. With an approach that combines sensuality with sophistication, we delve into authentic inquiries regarding dating, sexual relations, partnerships, and the essence