The Closeness Podcast · 90 free episodes
The conversations nobody ever had with you, in your ears
Desire, seduction, initiation, orgasm, dominance and the long middle of a marriage, explained plainly and with taste. Each episode is a full lesson you can use the same night, and the library is built to last, so start anywhere.
Every episode, free
Pick a topic or search the whole library. Every episode page has the audio, the video when there is one, and chapters you can jump between.
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Why people binge it
A decade of sessions with women and couples, distilled into the answers people most need and almost never get: how to start sex, how to read her, what to say when it goes wrong.
No news, no trends, nothing that expires. Episodes recorded years ago still apply to your marriage tonight, which is why listeners go back to the same ones.
I go straight to the hottest and most avoided subjects and talk about them with class. Nothing here will make you wince if it plays in the car, and plenty of couples listen together.
Prefer to watch or read?
The closest thing to sitting in my studio, plus shorts with the best moments.
Daily reels on desire, seduction and leading well, straight to your feed.
Longer pieces and episode write-ups for when you'd rather read than listen.
The most common story I hear
"I came across Tari’s website after finding myself in a difficult place and feeling like I had run out of places to turn for help. It was completely out of my comfort zone, but after reading all the reviews and listening to some podcasts I figured it was worth a shot."
Kimberly H · San Diego
When listening isn't enough
There's a point where you've heard the idea, you agree with it, and you still can't make it happen at home. That's when people call me. Start small with a private voice-note answer to one question, or book a session alone or together.
Keep reading
Each guide stands on its own, and together they cover everything from a first slow kiss to full power exchange.
Ready to practice?
I teach individuals and couples in person in my private San Diego studio and by video anywhere. Start with the intake so I know your story before we meet, or take the free quiz to see where your relationship stands.
