Discover what most client's like better than sex therapy
A PROVOCATIVE THOUGHT LEADER IN THE WORLD OF INTIMACY
If you want your session to be fun, sexy, electric and spontaneous we'll make it so.
If you prefer gentle sensitivity and care, plus a safe space to process emotions, where you can receive helpful feedback, so too it shall be.
When it comes to this kind of work, most clients have no idea what to expect. I published over 80 episodes and countless videos to help sooth you in that department. But we can also start with my name. I’m Tari (Not Terry) and I’ve been doing this for nearly a decade now.
I’ve got a strong passion for helping couples find Closeness again in a way that she finds hot and exciting.
Some of us just need someone to talk to. Check. Some of us want actionable advice that they can apply immediately. Check. Some need an expert to mediate and handle the room to keep things in…check.
Finally, some of us are looking for something fun and exciting to elevate their intimate relationship. Check, check, check!
Sex and connection will never truly be replaced by AI, toys or robots. It’s a human thing and it requires a very centered and grounded human for the job. I am that man.
Expert sex coaching and intimacy coaching from Tari, San Diego’s top-rated sex coach. Transform your relationship and sex life with powerful sexual guidance and relationship help.
However, when you're sharing the most intimate details of your life with someone, you don't only want them to hold a safe space. Once you actually feel safe, you want a solution to that one area that has you stuck! Ideally you'd want the answer to make a big impact on your relationship or your own body. If traditional sex therapy hasn't worked for you or doesn't appeal to you, you're in the right spot to try something different. You want to be in the hands of someone who can read you, who is sensitive to your boundaries but also knows how to turn up the volume or intensity the way you've been craving. You want someone respectful, competent, and also a little sexy, if we're honest. I've spent a lifetime becoming that person to do my life's work.
The need for sex, intimacy and Closeness is an intrinsic part of our lives whether we’re having sex with someone currently or not.
Having lived in different countries all over the world, it quickly became evident to me, that no matter who we are and where we go in the world, we all have similar wants, needs and desires.
The specifics and how it plays out with each individual or couple may look a little different but the path to getting there is actually quite solvable. I have done it time and time again.
I have made it my life’s work to help you unlock the deeper parts of your sexuality that you may not even know is there.
You may have also noticed I know a thing or two about touch, trust, keeping you safe and how to be strong…
Most Closeness Clients report that after 1-6 visits, their sex, intimate or love life dramatically changes for the better! That's dramatically better than spending years with a sex therapist! If you like what I've got to say and are open to my unique style of coaching, you will be shocked by what can be unlocked and accomplished within a few hours time.
No matter how someone explains it to you, getting help with your sex life or romantic relationship can be a little nerve-racking and intimating.
When you sit down to share the most intimate details of your life with someone, you want to know: Can I trust this person? Do they know what they’re doing and have my best interest in mind?
From me to you, know that the answer is yes. I will take good care of you and your situation. I’m not a dungeon master or a sex crazed person who decided to be a coach. I will bring you a well balanced perspective and make sure you receive some great hospitality.
I’ll help you unlock more. More pleasure. More connection with your partner. More freedom in the sex you do have. More intensity and heat.
All in a cozy office looming off a cliff and nestled deeply in the back canyon of San Diego.
If you've read through the coaching section of this website, you know there's a lot to take in. Additionally though, I am also a sexual translator who can put into words what your partner often cannot. To really get to know someone means that sometimes we need to heal old wounds, work through resentment or old traumas, re-build trust, and work on communication. If you're not in a sexual place right now and not feeling ready to explore sexually, we start at your comfort level and meet you where you are. We care for your entire relationship's needs as a whole, not just massive orgasmic pleasure! You may additionally consult with me for: hot date ideas, interior design, speaking different languages, worldwide living and travel, and even acrobatics.
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As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I service all of Southern California, San Diego and Los Angeles area including North County and North San Diego.
While some clients fly in for appointments, people generally come from North Park, South Park, Hillcrest, La Jolla, Miramar, Del Mar, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Valencia, Downtown San Diego, Little Italy and more.
Great relationship help is hard to find. If you live abroad or in another city we offer virtual sessions as well on Zoom or FaceTime. I think you’ll enjoy it much more than a therapy or sex therapy session.
Reclaim your sexuality and schedule a sex coaching session today on Calendly or filling out an intake form.
If you have experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling in San Diego, you may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the intimacy department. As it turns out, many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable or knowledgable when it comes to the very sexual details that sexual guidance requires.
I constantly receive feedback that the advice clients receive from marriage and family counselor was too general or bland. They often say they were unable get their spark back because the advice simply didn’t work in this department.
At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of matters that are effecting your most, no matter how personal they may feel. My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.
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