My name is Tari

and I am your Closeness Coach

LET'S GET CLOSER

Expert sex coaching and intimacy advice from Tari, San Diego’s top-rated sex coach. Transform your relationship and intimacy with powerful sexual guidance and relationship help. 

Please step into my office...

I wanted this section to be a little more personal. It’s nice to know who you’ll be working with, and I know it’s not an easy choice when you decide to get relationship help. It’s tricky to find someone you feel comfortable and safe with. I’d love to help…

Actionable Relationship Help you can Trust

If you want your session to be fun, sexy, electric and spontaneous we'll make it so.

If you prefer gentle sensitivity and care, plus a safe space to process emotions, where you can receive helpful feedback, so too it shall be.

It isn't scary

No matter how it's explained, getting sexual help or relationship help can be intimating. When you share the most intimate details of your life with someone, you want to know, can I trust this person. Do they know what they're doing? And from me to you, I want you to know that the answer is yes.

The Purpose

The purpose of sex and intimacy coaching is to help unlock your hidden potential to experience more: More pleasure within yourself and with your partner. More communication, playfulness and sensuality. More seduction, adventure and fire. More freedom and fun!
I know about being an intimacy coach for women because I know about cats.

Methodology

It's never just about the sex. As an intimacy translator, I help you understand your partner and help you feel understood.

Often we just need an outside perspective to say and present things in a different way that clicks. I specialize in breaking through stuck energy and reigniting sexual attraction. Learn to build the kind of chemistry that feels electric.

The right tool for the job

Sessions are tailored to fit who you are as a couple or individual. We can explore the hot and sexy stuff or process and work through the issues that just need some tender care. Or we can simply work through daily life: sleeping arrangements, better communication, cooking together, and planning unforgettable date nights. I’ll recommend activities, restaurants, worldwide travel destinations, and more.

About Tari

My name is Tari – pronounced Tarrie. I’m also an acrobat, hand balancer and have been a performer in one way or another throughout life. I enjoy gourmet cooking, fine dining, great interior design and have a tasteful eye for style and class. 

Mission

The need for sex or intimacy is an intrinsic part of our lives whether we’re having sex currently or not. Having lived in different countries all over the world, it quickly became apparent to me, that no matter where we live in the world we all have similar needs and desires. The specifics and how it plays out with each individual or couple may look a little different but the path to getting there is actually quite solvable. 

I have made it my life’s work to help you unlock the deeper parts of your sexuality that you may not even know is there. 

If you don't know where to begin, start with me

Closeness Clients regularly report that after 1-4 visits, their sex life and love life dramatically change for the better! Depending on your receptivity and openness to my style of coaching, you will be shocked by what can be unlocked and accomplished within a few hours time.

Are you ready to come closer?

CALL NOW TO SCHEDULE YOUR FIRST SESSION:
(805) 427-3162

CLOSENESS SERVICE AREA

Get in-person, real sexual guidance and relationship coaching to help you and your partner get to a more connected and erotic place. 

As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I service all of Southern California, San Diego and Los Angeles area including North County and North San Diego. 

While some clients fly in for appointments, people generally come from North Park, South Park, Hillcrest, La Jolla, Miramar, Del Mar, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Valencia, Downtown San Diego, Little Italy and more. 

Great relationship help is hard to find. If you live abroad or in another city we offer virtual sessions as well on Zoom or FaceTime.  I think you’ll enjoy it much more than a therapy or sex therapy session. 

  Reclaim your sexuality and schedule a sex coaching session today on Calendly or filling out an intake form.

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Why I'm Different

If you have experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, psychotherapy or marriage and family counseling in San Diego, you may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the intimacy department.   As it turns out, many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable or knowledgable when it comes to the very sexual details that sexual guidance requires. 

 I constantly receive feedback that the advice clients receive from marriage and family counselor was too general or bland. They often say they were unable get their spark back because the advice simply didn’t work in this department.

  At Closeness, we can get right to the heart of matters that  are effecting your most, no matter how personal they may feel.  My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.