In the second installment of the Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’re tackling some of the most cringe-worthy behaviors that send online dating connections straight to the trash. Ready to up your dating game? Let’s dive in:
•Looking significantly worse in person than your worst profile photo. Let’s face it, your photos set expectations. Catfishing through selective editing or outdated pics? Not a vibe.
•Talking exclusively about what you “don’t do” or “won’t tolerate.” We get it, boundaries are important, but if your entire personality is wrapped in negativity, it’s exhausting.
•Making endless excuses to avoid meeting in person. If you like someone, show up! Flaking repeatedly and dodging plans doesn’t make you mysterious; it makes you forgettable.
•Overusing Snapchat filters and beauty filters. Nothing says, “I’m hiding everything about myself” like a generic filter. Retire it.
•Posting photos of yourself holding someone else’s baby. It might seem cute, but it’s giving confusing priorities rather than “dateable.”
•Responding with one-word answers. If “lol,” “yeah,” or “idk” is the best you’ve got, don’t be surprised if the conversation dies quick.
•Throwing around the phrase “next time” without meaning it. If there’s no “this time,” there’s not going to be a next one either.
•Freaking out if someone asks if you’re real. If your profile looks fake, or you’ve made yourself look like AI, that’s on you. A little verification question isn’t an attack—it’s common sense.
•Putting yourself in bad situations because “that’s what he wants.” Let’s make one thing clear: your safety and comfort come first, no matter what anyone else expects.
•Ignoring most of what someone says. If they ask three questions and you answer just one, you’re not playing it cool—you’re just not paying attention.
•Dropping phrases like, “I’m never on here,” “notifications are off,” or “hit me up on Snap.” Translation: “I’m bored and uninvested.” If you’re not into it, just log off.
•Playing mind games or being manipulative. Whether it’s tricks, passive-aggressive tests, or subtle power plays, it’s 2024—leave the drama in the past.
Online dating doesn’t have to be this hard. Avoid these sins, bring your best self to the table, and stop sabotaging your own chances. Ready to come closer?
Are you ready to come closer?
