Relationship coaching is like getting the sex education you could only dream of growing up. In-person intimacy coaching sessions are the perfect way to restore chemistry with your partner and clean up old patterns. Learn to seduce and excite your partner, develop skills you were never taught in and out of the bedroom and make your relationship feel more alive and passionate. Anything that has been confusing for you, can be addressed in a safe, fun and respectful space.
As the top rated sex coach in San Diego, I specialize in re-invigorating your relationship. We can work with passion, sex, communication and connection or I can mediate difficult conversations. I'll help you get out of any rut you've been stuck in. We do this by learning to ignite (or reignite) passion and desire. This is actually easier than you may think if both partners are willing. I also teach men, with their female partners present, how be assertive and sexually confident partners. Ladies, if you're tired being "asked" for sex, annoyed by being touched in ways that make your skin crawl, and don't want to have pity sex, keep reading.
I facilitate the exploration of pleasure, understanding your body and figuring out what you want-something that people often don't know. In short, we can get you back on track with your emotional needs and sex life, as well as totally redefine what intimate communication and interactions look like in your relationship. If your relationship is craving Closeness, or needs a sexual tune-up, this is where you want to be.
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Most couples who come in are able to find success quickly, but that does mean that your man has to be on board.
Results come from your ability and willingness to do the exercises, take it seriously (men!), play with the fun interactions at home and come prepared each week with things you want to work on.
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All matters related to sex, understanding your body, and what turns you on or excites you can be addressed. Intimacy coaching is a powerful way to get out of your head, sort through what’s going on, and have the conversations you can’t talk about anywhere else.
Women don’t want to ‘teach’ their partner how to do be sexual. This feels unnatural or makes them see their partner differently. In session, we figure out what excites you and then teach your partner how to give it to you. This makes all the difference in the world when it comes to turning you on. We can soften anxiety, figure out what gets you going, and work on assertiveness.
If you’re in relationship, coming to session together is the most powerful way to create lasting change. Often couples want to send their other half in to be fixed. But when the female partner is present in the room, she can actually see the changes and experience what turns her on (or off) in real time.
When a woman is present, everything changes for the better and that’s where the magic happens.
With your consent, you can learn how to help your female partner feel desired, aroused and heard. You’ll leave with an understanding of how and why it happened. I will immediately and softly point out her subtle body language and cues, that let you know you’re heading in the right direction. There are very specific cues women offer that inform you what to do next! Most men, if they are in a good space, can witness sexual desire in their partners eyes and see it in her body language.
Whether you’re in relationship or single, you can benefit greatly from a sex coaching session. I advise, coach and guide on all aspects of intimacy, not just sex. Learn more about about what you can expect from doing a session together.
Often one person has a much higher sex drive than their partner. That is often the female partner.
If a man is ‘working on it’ but only tries once or twice a week and is meek in his energy and approach, this will often appear to his female partner like he doesn’t care or isn’t trying. Repetition is the mother of skill. By coming regularly, we’ll get you dialed in so you always know what to do next. Repetitive sessions allow us to continue to refine so you can be more effective, and seductive, at home. That doesn’t mean that you need to do 50 sessions. Most people find that I can get them back on track in 2-5 session!
Get in-person, sexual guidance and relationship coaching to get you to a better place.
As an expert sex educator and intimacy coach, I service all of Southern California, San Diego and Los Angeles area including North County and North San Diego.
Some clients fly in for appointments from out of state and will stay at a local hotel or Airbnb. Locals come from North Park, South Park, Hillcrest, La Jolla and Del Mar. Others come from Miramar, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Rancho Valencia, Downtown San Diego, Little Italy etc.
Great relationship help is hard to find. If you live abroad or in another city we offer virtual sessions as well on Zoom or FaceTime. I think you’ll enjoy it much more than a therapy or sex therapy session.
Reclaim your sexuality and schedule a sex coaching session today on Calendly or filling out an intake form.
Have experienced traditional forms of sex therapy, or marriage and family counseling in San Diego? You may have been left feeling a little frustrated in the intimacy department. Many qualified therapists and sex therapists aren’t fully comfortable when it comes to the intimate details that sexual guidance requires.
I regularly receive feedback that the advice clients receive from their therapist was too general, bland or non-applicable. They often say they were unable get their spark back because the advice simply didn’t work in this department.
At Closeness, we can get to the heart of what’s effecting your most, no matter how personal it may feel. My warm, confident approach is stress-free and takes place in a stunning and relaxing forest like setting.
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