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Who should initiate sex and intimacy in relationships?

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Who should initiate sex and intimacy in relationships?
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Have you ever thought about how much sex you want in a day, a week, or a month? Or do you avoid quantifying it altogether, thinking it’s too personal or restrictive? And here’s another question: once you’ve slept with someone a few times, who should initiate? These seemingly simple questions can ignite deeper conversations—and even lead to couple’s coaching.

At the heart of Closeness Coaching is this transformative idea: never have sex out of obligation. But how do you balance that with staying open, available, and receptive to intimacy with your partner? It’s a delicate dance, but one that can change your relationship for the better.

This episode dives into the intriguing debate: are women actually more sexual than men? Beyond that, we explore how to tell the difference between a partner who’s genuinely too tired and busy for intimacy versus someone who might be emotionally checked out—or, worse, rejecting you.

We’ll also tackle communication around initiating sex. How do you ask for what you need without it feeling awkward or forced? And if you’ve bought into the belief that men should always initiate, could that mindset be holding you back from getting what you really want?

Whether you’re trying to better understand your own desires or crack the code on intimacy with your partner, this episode is your chance to sort it all out. Tune in—it’s about time for some answers, don’t you think?

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